Like flowers, the most delicious part of you is in the center of your bloom. That delicious center is your authentic self; your fears, dreams, challenges, ambitions, history, laughter, smile, and your unguarded eyes, heart and soul. To let go is to bloom, to open the flower, trusting that it is safe to reveal the center of your soul and to have faith that there is a trusted lover that you can reveal it to and he will relish this gift and do all he can to protect its safe keeping. If your man, or your future man, never gets a glimpse of your center, he doesn’t know how precious the flower is that he is protecting. You must let him see.
Just because you want him to see the center of your beautiful being, doesn’t mean that you know how to reveal it. You must FEEL a certain way in order to open. The myth is that your man is responsible for how you feel. It’s true that your man can help you to trust him, provide for you, protect you and pay attention to your response as he touches you or approaches you. But your man is not responsible for how you feel. You are! Right now you can decide not to blame your inhibitions on your past. Right now you can begin a process that leads you to opening your heart so you can blossom and fully orgasm for your man. There is nothing your man will enjoy more than opening you up to your inner-beauty. Your bloom and pleasure is his reward.
The secret is that your man can access doors to your inner soul and authentic expression that you struggle to unlock on your own. Through his focus on your loveliness and by earning your trust, you give him the key to your secret doorways, the vault, where he can discover the incredible feminine radiance that you have waiting inside. When you surrender your body fully to your trusted lover, you gift him the keys to the deepest part of your vagina and throat and other sexual arousal areas that open you more fully to feminine luminescence. He unlocks the beauty inside and helps you to reveal the glory of the goddess. This exchange begin with trust and attraction and becomes love, physical pleasure and joy.