Apparently Sex sells! We all know it, magazines flaunt it, many men insatiably crave it, and some of us unknowingly perpetuate this syndrome in our everyday interactions with men!
We can continue to get reactive about some men’s tendency to get a rise (oops I don’t really like to use the word ‘rise’ in this context, however in this moment it’s making me laugh, so I’ll leave it… and by the way don’t forget to join us at RISE this year) out of lower vibrational sexual energy, which is simply a man’s mammalian hardwired response to women’s hardwired attention-seeking survival mechanisms! Or we can get real about the more subtle ways we may be wielding our sexual energy. Even if we are dressed in a head to toe grey smock, our lower self energy can still be wearing garter belts and fishnets!
As intuitive beings, most of us are aware when we are having an arousing impact on men. If we wish to transform the exploitation of women’s bodies on magazine covers and spare our daughters the destruction of unconsciously seeking men’s approval with their bodies, and most importantly if we are called to create a new thriving imprint as conscious women, then we can choose to develop the holistic art of having a sex-free demeanor with men (I am talking about men other than our spouse or partner).
And if we are not in a relationship with a man, then I am still talking about not exuding sexual energy toward men who are in relationship with others... and come on, the world is not a flea market to shop for men...although some dating sites beg to differ...I say, know your value, live your purpose, and allow your Soulmate to be magnetized toward you...Ok that's the topic for another blog!
Don’t worry, this isn’t about being the repressed, stiff-lipped woman of days past! This is the BraveHearted Woman, standing strong in her sensuality and essence. She is a potent sister, mother lioness, and sage to the male gender. Oh and no I’m not talking about ‘mothering’ men to fill an inner void inside of ourselves… this too is a topic for a separate blog… Hahhhhhhhhhh
A BraveHeart Woman knows her value because she embodies her purpose as a female visionary and her sensuality as an Essence-filled woman. To her, the trite tricks of the femme fatale are throwbacks to cavewoman days, when her survival depended on her ability to be find a mate so she could get pregnant and procreate, and that happened before we had shoes...get it? Barefoot and pregnant… HaHaHa
Speaking of cave days, for thousands of years now, somehow a distorted idea of pleasure has been developed and served as a competitive tool for women. The woman who exuded the most pleasure got the man, a survival mechanism learned from female apes! And generally speaking, women have been afraid of “that woman” who may exude more pleasure than them, hence resisting pleasure to begin with. Sexual energy intertwined with the need to please men is plain distorted energy, and the ‘pRessure’ and competition that has brought into the female gender, has been immense.
By the way, exuding is a forceful survival based action, and force is pressure, and pressure comes from pain.
So let’s release the pain, competition, and the default pattern to exude sexual energy and begin to “emanate” our Essence, our Sensual Self, and learn to create and bask in the Joy and divine pleasure of this new imprint.
BraveHeart Everyday Tip:
Sexual energy is the lower self survival need to be interesting to others ~ Sensual energy is to be interested in how you feel within your highest self.
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Let’s allow a breath: Hahhhhhhhhh...
In the flow,