Life with Ease…as a context.
Here in the BraveHeart Women community we often mention doing things 'with ease'. I can see how there could be misunderstandings when we say 'with ease' for some women, and so I hope this sheds some light. This is for our new BraveHeart women who are just beginning to learn what is being offered and practiced in our BraveHeart Women journey.
‘With ease' is a context we live into or create from. What we mean from my experience and understanding is that when we say ‘doing things with ease', we do NOT mean that it'll be 'easy'. Nope.
Anyone who thinks it means that 'it's easy' is misinformed. We do add 'with ease' a lot in our communications because it's foundational in our core work of creating an Oxytocin Lifestyle. See, without inquiring into what 'with ease' means, without doing the work and practicing the tools we offer, some women may make assumptions for themselves perhaps and that’s when it gets misunderstood, and then wonder why they are stopped or are not forwarding their purpose.
And by the way, it's also okay wherever you are on the journey... we say here that it's all about progression and not perfection and that we each have our own blossoming time(s).
Personally, since my participation with BraveHeart Women, I've experienced greater 'ease' being with the most difficult moments in my life, when things are tough and challenging and in the midst of chaos.
That's made possible through ongoing practice of the many wonderful tools Ellie Drake created for us to use and embody. Being on my Personal, Professional and Global purpose is Not Easy... however I can operate 'with ease' so I'm not constantly on survival or in adrenalin. This is a practice for my body & soul and that with continued practice, it creates a new imprint in my nervous system and therefore my mind, resulting in my actions. In other words, how do we continue to open and bloom even when it's not the most ideal situation.
To find out more, we have free events like the monthly Ripple gatherings in your community to introduce the Oxytocin Lifestyle... and there are courses like the Female Success Model and other free videos on our website here too.
Also, it's not easy when we have those disempowering thoughts when we start playing big or creating anything new in our life that matters... we call those thoughts our 'Buts' in life. ie: but I'm not smart enough, etc. That's why we have a practice called DYBO (Dance Your Buts Off) as another wonderful tool to use, moving those dense emotions into motion.
So simply... creating 'With Ease' in our life is creating an 'Oxytocin Lifestyle'.
It's a visceral embodiment and not a mental construct.
THIS is the movement Ellie birthed for this community so we can share it with women worldwide. Women creating the life, the purpose, the love, and the being we want to Be in the world... It's not an easy task, yet we can embrace, surrender and experience it ALL with Ease.
Oh and if you haven't, I invite you to get on the Beyond Calls that are archived calls with Ellie. You'll find by listening to those calls that we all share our human/female experiences that are not easy or are in the way of our Purposes... and you'll hear real practices of being ‘with ease’ and engagements in creating new imprints. This for me will be an ongoing commitment and for all of us if we are to thrive...
May you fulfill that which you desire dear sister and keep blossoming… with Ease. Hahhhhhhhhh
And to our sisters who've been on this journey, please share your Oxytocin Lifestyle gems... how has being 'with ease' in life for you?