Hedy,

I love what you wrote about how often people think that what is normal is "what I am." It is important to understand the other person's personality type and it is also important to have a sense of how that person is viewing me. Sometimes the other person has blinders on, has created a perception about me that is not accurate but is believed to be true by that person. This is where interpersonal difficulties can become exacerbated.

Thanks for inviting me to your group. I will stop by from time to time, but I am involved in many sites and time sometimes gets away from me. I am excited to be part of BraveHeartWomen - what a powerful group - and also your Relationship Dance community.

In my book, about to be sold at Amazon.com and as a series of ebooks online, the title is: Love Me, Touch Me, Heal Me: The Path to Physical, Emotional, Sexual and Spiritual Reawakening. Book I is Love Me ... Please and the third chapter title is THE DELICATE DANCE OF LOVE!

We are certainly thinking in a similar way.
DrErica

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Yes, I agree. She must know what she truly wants in order to receive it. Negative unconscious beliefs do play a major role when asking the universe for what you want, as the vibrations could get fuzzy.

This is why one must go through the process of deconstructing beliefs. Emotional release techniques would really be good for this.

It is also important to be aware of what you don't want which will help aid in the process.